So many spiritual people have an issue with accepting their negative emotions. Anger, hatred, and so forth are unspiritual and egoic. You have to love and forgive.
Of course I think all that is ridiculous. Anger is just as much a part of the human experience as happiness or joy.
How can it be unspiritual? Do you think all astral entities are always happy and joyful? Ha, not even close. Contrary to the claims of many LOA teachers, spirits of all kinds can get angry, or feel any other “negative” emotion.
Accepting only one part of the emotional spectrum but not the other, is to repress a large part of yourself.
I’m not saying you should become an angry person. But in fact if you embrace your anger (and other negative emotions), those emotions will flow right through you.
I recently got very angry with a relative. Now we had never gotten along, but I kept hearing that she kept bringing me up and saying negative things about me, and she used these things as an excuse to insult my mother.
Now usually I’d just stay out of it. But for some reason this last time was the final straw. I got angry. Not only did I get angry, but I wanted to let her know about it.
So I texted her and let her know in no uncertain terms how I felt.
Sure there was a little backlash, but I expected that and didn’t care. She blamed my mother for lying to me about her and basically said I was “unforgivable”. Oh well.
The end result though was positive. My mother was grateful I had defended her, and I felt a ton better after expressing my anger.
People are often scared by anger, because there is a lot of raw power in it.
But that raw power is potent. You can perform strong magick with that power.
Here is my caveat: there is another coach I know of who encourages venting your anger, but she also tells you not to worry, your anger won’t affect anyone negatively.
I’ve given this warning before but I’ll do it again: your thoughts are powerful. Your positive thoughts bring blessings, and your negative thoughts bring curses.
There is a possibility that your anger will bring some negativity to the target, even if not expressed directly to them. But you shouldn’t worry about this for two reasons:
- By the time it comes to expressing your anger, you’ve already been thinking negatively about them anyway. Those thoughts are just as harmful as expressing your anger, so you may as well express it. The harm has already been done.
- If this is an enemy, then why would you care? Black magick is about working your individual will upon the world. If someone stands in the way of that will, then sometimes some negative energy thrown in their direction is exactly what is needed. Sometimes it’ll serve exactly as the lesson they need to show them their own folly. Sometimes not, but it doesn’t matter.
The harsh truth is that like it or not, you’ll think negative thoughts about someone, and those negative thoughts will have an effect. You can deny that fact and repress a part of yourself, or embrace it and become fully who you are.
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