Find the Positive Aspects of Life

One of the things Abraham says that I love is that every particle of the universe contains both wanted and unwanted aspects.

That means, there is no part of life that is totally unwanted, and there is no part of life that is totally wanted.

Now this is actually extremely good news for us, and I’ll tell you why in a moment.

But you might have noticed, we are extremely good at homing in on the exact things we don’t want to be in our lives. And then, we keep focusing on them, and focusing on them, and focusing on them.

And then of course those unwanted aspects get bigger, and bigger, and bigger.

Part of it might stem from some odd assumption most people have, that if they aren’t unhappy with what is, then the Universe won’t know to give them something else.

Of course that’s not how any of this works at all. How it works is that you get more of what you focus on: so if you focus on things that make you happy, you’ll get more things that make you happy.

So I said above it’s good news that there is wanted and unwanted in every situation. And that’s because, as creators, we have the power to focus on the wanted in any situation.

So let’s say you hate some situation in your life. But according to this principle, there must be some aspect of that situation that isn’t so bad, or which is actually wanted. Remember, no situation is 100% unwanted.

Or if that situation is too hard to think about, then there’s some other situation in life that has more wanted aspects, which are easier to focus on.

And the great thing is that once you start focusing on those wanted aspects, the law of attraction kicks in and you get more wanted things, of all types.

Another thing Abraham says is that if there are nine unwanted aspects to that situation, and only one wanted aspect, if you would be stubborn enough to only give your attention to that one wanted aspect, so the other nine would have no choice but to improve drastically.

In relationships, you should only give your attention to the wanted aspects of your partner. At your job, you should only give your attention to the wanted aspects of that job. In your financial situation, you should only give your attention to the wanted aspects of your experience with money.

And if you would do this, at least more often than you have in the past, then you’d find all parts of life miraculously improving almost overnight.

If you’d like help with learning how you can apply this to your own desires, then I invite you to request a free consultation with me to see how I can help.