You’re happily applying the law of attraction to your desire. You’ve dropped your attachments to the best of your ability, you’ve released the resistance that’s come up, and now you’re just waiting to see what happens.
How do you know if it worked? How do you know if your manifestation is on its way?
Perhaps you had some experiences that you could interpret as a sign, but are they, really? Or are you just misinterpreting the signals from the Universe?
Those are the questions I’ll be answering today. Our reader, Dee, asked this question:
I’ve been trying to manifest my soulmate( we were together a short time awhile back). August 19 he texted me “are you seeing anyone”. I answered “no” and I haven’t heard from him since. I’m new to the LOA so my question is this. Was this message evidence that it is manifesting? Or just a fluke? Is something going on behind the scenes that I can’t see? I just can’t understand why he asked me that but then I haven’t heard anymore from him. Do I need to just wait and “allow”?
This is a great question, and I suspect that it’s one that many people hold.
It’s actually three separate questions, and I’m going to address them one at a time. The questions I’ll answer are these:
- “Was this message evidence that it is manifesting? Or just a fluke?”
- “Is something going on behind the scenes that I can’t see?”
- “Do I need to just wait and ‘allow’?”
How to Know a Sign Is, Indeed, a Sign
Dee’s first question was: “Was this message evidence that it is manifesting? Or just a fluke?”
There are really no “flukes” in the Universe. Everything has some meaning.
Actually, I’ll modify that. Everything that triggers an emotional response within you has a meaning, either positive or negative.
So, if something happens that triggers a positive response, then that means that this was a positive manifestation for you. On the other hand, if something happens that triggers a negative response in you, then that means that this was a negative manifestation. In other words, the Universal flow, in its attempt to manifest your desire, ran into some resistance, and so you got this unwanted experience.
Totally neutral stuff really doesn’t have meaning, to you. And, all meaning is meaning, to you. You are the only one that can give it meaning, based on your own subconscious programs running in the background.
For instance, when you’re driving to work, each and every building you pass doesn’t have some universal meaning to you. But, if someone cuts you off in traffic, and you get angry, then that most certainly does have meaning and significance, because you had an emotional response to it.
In this case, I’m guessing that when this guy texted you, you probably had a positive response.
So, simple answer? Yes, that was a manifestation.
Note I’ve not talked about signs yet, only manifestations. But, they are really one and the same. A “sign” of your manifestation, is really its own mini manifestation. Usually the Universe doesn’t just drop the completed manifestation in your lap. You’ll generally see bigger and bigger signs as your manifestation approaches. Not all the time, but this is a general pattern.
What’s the Universe Up To, Anyway?
The second part of your question was: “Is something going on behind the scenes that I can’t see?”
Oh, most definitely.
The Universe is a bit like a computer. When you go to check your email on your computer, it’s performing countless operations in the background. Just immediately under the surface, it’s connecting to the mail server, sending requests and receiving responses, and downloading your messages.
But even below that level, there are many, many more things happening. A modern CPU (computer processor) can execute on the level of billions of instructions every second. These are all far beneath the level of what you’d be seeing on your computer screen, but they are necessary to the proper functioning of your computer.
When you’re manifesting, you’re doing a very, very small amount of the work. You’re simply setting your intention, and feeling the feeling of having the goal already.
The Universe does everything else. It has the big picture. It knows what components to place where to get you to your goal in the fastest, most effortless way possible.
For quite a while, you’re not going to see any evidence of that work. It’s all happening under the surface.
But eventually, you will see some sign. It will be of one of two types: either (1) a positive manifestation that feels good to you, or (2) a negative manifestation that feels pretty terrible.
If #1, then you’re doing well. You’re lined up with your goal, and just have to keep holding your pure intention.
If #2, then some resistance has gotten in the way, and you have a bit of work to do in order to clear that out.
Actually, there’s a third type of sign: a mix of #1 and #2. Part of your manifestation feels good, but part also feels bad. It’s a mixed result.
Once you receive these signs and react accordingly, then the energy goes out and another attempt is made at the manifestation, which will result in more signs.
So what’s going on behind the scenes? Well, just about everything. Every time you think about this relationship, you send out a bit more energy that adds on to what you’ve sent in the past.
You can either add energy to “this isn’t happening,” which you have been doing, it seems—or to “it’s coming to me”. That is purely determined by your thoughts, and the signs in your life will reflect this.
So, every time you think on the subject, that energy goes out to try to manifest this relationship. The Universe finds the shortest path to your goal. When the energy returns, it will either find a clear path, or it’ll run into the barriers you’ve put up, being your resistance.
Evaluating the Signs
With that in mind, let’s evaluate the signs in this situation. It may seem you’ve not been getting signs, but you definitely have.
You said, “I just can’t understand why he asked me that but then I haven’t heard anymore from him.” Hopefully this will answer that for you.
First, you say that on August 19, he texted you and asked if you were with anyone.
What kind of manifestation was this? Probably a positive one.
That means that you had a bit of openness to this desire of yours.
Now, after that happened, you didn’t hear back.
How did that feel? Probably not so good.
Therefore, it was a negative sign, meaning that resistance got in the way.
It is now over a month later, and you’ve still not heard anything. Therefore, this negative sign is continuing. Every time you think about his non-response to you, you are reactivating that negative manifestation.
So what happened? Why did a positive sign manifest, and then nothing but negative manifestations after that?
I’m guessing one of two scenarios took place:
First, you received the text, and were really excited about it. But, that excitement triggered your resistance. Now, you think thoughts like, “Oh, I wonder if he’ll reply? Could this turn into something? But what if he doesn’t reply? What if it doesn’t work out?”
This is a common trap I find people falling into. The desire begins to manifest, but we try to rush things. We wonder “what if”, and basically analyze it to death.
The more you obsessed over it, the more you put up resistance to the manifestation of this desire. And so, it was followed immediately by the negative manifestation of him not responding.
The second possibility is that you had just enough openness for him to text you, but still a good bit of resistance that you hadn’t dealt with yet. You were a match to him texting you, but you hadn’t opened enough yet for more to manifest.
These two possibilities really aren’t too far apart, and honestly it doesn’t matter.
The point is, you did have some alignment, but then somehow allowed yourself to generate increased resistance to this manifestation.
For others who read this post, you’ll want to analyze your results in much the same way. When you get positive signs, realize that these reflect your own openness to your goal. But when you receive negative signs, that’s a reflection of your resistance.
Either way, you always know exactly what to do next, which is the beauty of the Universe.
Note that nothing happening is, in fact, a negative sign. You respond with negative emotion to it, which means that it is a sign of your resistance. So, a manifestation doesn’t always have to be an actual event, but could very well be a non-event.
What to Do Next?
Your last question was: “Do I need to just wait and ‘allow’?”
My first answer is, of course. Allowing is always the answer, along with setting your intention.
The ego will always try to figure out actions it can take to make this desire happen. But, it will not work. You wield the most power in life when you simply allow the Universal flow to do its part.
I only recommend taking 10 minutes or so, once or twice per day, and holding your intention. If resistance arises when you think about it, then clear that resistance.
You want to be aware of your thoughts about this situation, when you think about it.
If you think about it in a negative way, such as worrying about him not contacting you, or what that might mean about you as a person, then you’re just adding to the resistance.
If you think about your desire and feel negatively, that’s your resistance. Simply release those thoughts, and move towards thoughts that feel better to you.
In the teleclass series coming up, The Art of Reality Creation, I’ll be talking about collapsing the duality and entering the zero state. However, that is far beyond the scope of this post.
But, you cannot afford to continue to obsess about this situation. Every time you do so, you are just adding to that resistance, and perpetuating more of the same.
Again, for others reading, the answer is the same. Be careful of your thoughts when you are thinking about your desire.
That doesn’t mean to push away those thoughts, as this “pushing away” is itself a negative emotional response, and therefore creating resistance.
I’m saying to cut off the emotional charge from these thoughts.
It’s not the thoughts themselves that are creating in your reality in a way that you do not like. It is the negative emotional reaction to these thoughts that is creating for you.
Remove that emotional charge, and the thoughts have no power.
Thoughts are just energy. It is the emotional charge that magnetizes them.
Now, I do want to say that allowing does not necessarily mean waiting. Results could come tomorrow, if enough resistance was released.
But, it might come in a way that you don’t expect. What if this particular person isn’t your “soul mate”? Honestly, the concept of soul mate is a pretty useless one overall, but that’s a topic for another day.
So what if the perfect person is standing by, but your insistent focus on this one specific person is blocking out that manifestation, which could be even better for you?
Just put out your request to the Universe, and sit back to see what happens. That’s about all you need to do.
To Summarize
I covered a lot of material in this post, so let me summarize briefly.
So, how do you know your manifestation is on its way?
Well, you know because you’ve set the intention. Isn’t that the whole principle of the law of attraction?
So there’s that. But beyond this obvious point, for a while, you just have to trust.
Think of your goal, feel the having of it emotionally, and then let it go. Do this at least once per day, preferably shortly before bed, and that’s all that’s needed.
You’ll get feedback soon enough. Maybe when you think about it, you feel resistance. So, clear that out.
But after you’ve been doing this, you’ll get some reaction. Something will appear in outer reality, whether positive or negative, which will show you where you are with this desire.
If it’s negative, then you missed some resistance. That’s okay.
If it’s positive, then that’s great! It means that you’re on the path to your manifestation, so just keep doing more of the same.
If it’s a bit of both, then celebrate the positive, and release the resistance triggered by the negative.
Then, set your intention again. And the cycle begins anew, with another sign manifesting itself, either positive or negative, and you again get the chance to react to it.
So, how do you know it’s on the way? Because, you should be paying attention to the roadsigns. If they say you’re headed in the right direction, then trust in that. But if they say you’re headed the wrong way, then respond to that feedback appropriately and try again.
This stuff is not complicated. You just need to pay attention.
How About You?
Now it’s your turn. Have you seen the signs of your own manifestation? Are you aware of the path you are on and where it is taking you? Let me know your thoughts in the comments.
If you have your own question you’d like me to answer, then feel free to ask me. Your question could end up being answered on my blog. 🙂
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Hi Brandon!
Excellent post, especially the part about how when nothing is happening that is also a sign. I liked that part, as that is a common occurance to me. And then I get impatient and try to MAKE it happen instead of just letting it happen.
I really like how you explain the prosess in examples that are relatable, and how you include all the steps.
Thanks Brandon!
Astrid
Hey Astrid,
Thanks so much for your comment. 🙂
Yes, when nothing happens, that can really be difficult to properly deal with. But the more you try to make things happen, the more you perpetuate the current situation. It’s a bit of a catch-22, and doesn’t resolve until you simply let go.
I found the balance of addressing the specific question Dee asked and explaining things more generally for other readers really helpful here. It’s like you get to see the LOA in practice and also understand the theory behind it.
I wonder sometimes what to do when I have to predict/commit to future actions but I’m getting mixed signals about the related manifestation. In the example, Dee was getting a little bit of a positive sign and also signs of resistance. Suppose that in the midst of this, she had been asked to a wedding and people needed to know, “Are you bringing a date or not?” (Or think of some better example of some future romantic action she may have to decide about BEFORE she’s entirely sure where her romantic manifestation is at.) Is it better to make a choice in faith that the universe will give her a partner by then, or to assume that the resistance won’t be all cleared by then? Sometimes we have to make choices about the future now, when we may be having a mixed assortment of signs. Of course, sometimes we can back out or change our minds without much harm to anyone later, but other times, the decision seems more fixed. (e.g. you can’t get the deposit back on the vacation you were hoping for, or the government office won’t let you change your mind about what you filed, etc.) If you’re getting mixed signals and a commitment one way or the other seems required right now, what should you do?
Hi Lisa,
I’m glad you liked the post, and that you thought there was a good balance. 🙂 The balance was very important to me.
Your question is a very good one. The answer, unfortunately, depends on the individual.
In general, I’d say that committing to something when you still have a lot of resistance, will likely only create more resistance. So in the hypothetical you gave, if Dee commits to bringing a date, she might then feel pressured to manifest this quickly, and that deadline of the wedding is going to be looming over her head.
Now, it’s important to note that it is not at all failing your manifestation, or holding it away, if she were to just say, “No, no date this time.” It’s just giving her breathing room to let that manifestation happen.
But it depends on the level of resistance. If you think that the commitment will kick you into gear, and resistance is only moderate, then perhaps it’s a good thing.
Wonderful post!
Is the zero zone that of creation or manifestation or both? I love this zone because my mind does not bombard me with negative stuff and I feel at peace. Ι think that this is the reason that, when I expect something in particular, it does not manifest, but when I do not, it manifests. Not expecting anything frees you up so that things pop up. This is how a lot of things have showed up for me. I know people tell you to chase after things and become a go-getter, which is fine, but when the sign is to stop doing that you need to heed it.
“Note that nothing happening is, in fact, a negative sign”. Yup, this goes back to the expectation thing. You’d expect the guy to contact you but he doesn’t. You can still feel elated that he did, since you know your social life is happening and you are a catch.
I feel we get penalized for resistance because we remain stagnant if we have any.
Hi Kat,
Thanks for your comment. 🙂
To me, creation = manifestation. They are the same thing.
Addressing what you said, though, I think perhaps expectation is not at all the same thing as craving. I’ve manifested many things, where I did expect it to happen. That expectation I see more as a confidence that it will work out, and you have the power to manifest it.
Craving is more that I need this thing to happen. That’s what Dee seemed to fall into once her desired partner started texting her. I know the state well, and it’s hard to get out of it, once you’ve entered that place.
So to me, expectation is a good thing. That’s equivalent to holding a light intention, as I’ve mentioned before.
But simultaneously you have to rest in the zero state, and allow everything to be perfect. It’s really quite a fine balance.
Interestingly, I did just manifest something this week where I outright did not expect it to happen. But I did the steps anyway, just in case the Universe found a way to make it happen, and it came through for me. 🙂 So expectation isn’t always necessary, but can be helpful.
I also would not say we get penalized for having resistance. It’s simply a matter of what we’re able to allow into our reality. We’re the gatekeeper of that reality, and we choose, consciously or unconsciously, what can come through.
Thanks for the thorough explanation of my question. I would like to add that I’ve received HUGE signs in the past. I mean totally irrefutable, no way it’s a coincidence signs! I’ve asked for a specific sign and I’ve gotten it. I don’t even ask for signs and I’ll just get them but yes sometimes my ego gets in the way and doubt will creep in. The last few days I feel I’m totally in a place of least resistance and now there is no doubt. I just know. So thx again- it really helped!
Hi Dee,
I’m so glad to hear that the post helped. 🙂
It sounds like you are doing great!
My advice stands as given in the post. Be open to the Universe surprising you with who, specifically, is your “soulmate”. Sometimes our ego likes to think it knows exactly what is best, but it has no idea. Just keep feeling good about having a great partner, and the Universe will bring you the perfect match.
Hi Brandon! I’ve been trying to manifest $100 million specifically for a year now. I try to let go of all resistance, I trust that the universe will deliver it to me. I think about what it will feel like to have that everyday, a few times a day. Im not sure what I’m doing wrong or why it hasn’t manifested 🙁 please help! This will be huge for me and my family.
Hi @Cassie,
I’m sorry to be blunt, but you’re in way over your head. That’s not how the law of attraction works. You just can’t wish for 100 million dollars and hope that it comes. It is so big that your subconscious mind is just going to give up.
I highly recommend my class, The Art of Reality Creation 2.0. This will answer all your questions about how to manifest big goals.
I’m happy to answer your specific questions though.
Well..I know the universe doesn’t see a difference between $1 and 1 billion dollars…and I certainly know its possible..but I also get what you’re saying. Should I think of a smaller specific amount?
The thing is, you don’t know it’s possible, or it’d be here. The first step is to not delude yourself.
But yes, take your current monthly income, and choose an amount about 20% higher. Set that as a goal. 🙂 That is believable enough, while being challenging.
Wonderful post !!!. Simplest yet best explanation of how manifestation works. Being persistent is the key like you explained in your last post. Just don’t give up. Over the time it gets better and you feel more confident. And I believe after some time it feels normal. I look at it like developing new software. You need to keep removing bugs and keep updating it.
Thank you for another great Post.
So true, Rhea. I love the software analogy since I’m also a programmer. 🙂
It really is all about persistence. Just apply the steps and trust that the Universe will take care of the rest.
I’m so glad you enjoyed my post. 🙂 Thanks as always for your comment.
Hi Brandon!
Excellent post, especially the part about how when nothing is happening that is also a sign. I liked that part, as that is a common occurance to me. And then I get impatient and try to MAKE it happen instead of just letting it happen.
I really like how you explain the prosess in examples that are relatable, and how you include all the steps.
Thanks Brandon!
Astrid
Hey Astrid,
Thanks so much for your comment. 🙂
Yes, when nothing happens, that can really be difficult to properly deal with. But the more you try to make things happen, the more you perpetuate the current situation. It’s a bit of a catch-22, and doesn’t resolve until you simply let go.
I found the balance of addressing the specific question Dee asked and explaining things more generally for other readers really helpful here. It’s like you get to see the LOA in practice and also understand the theory behind it.
I wonder sometimes what to do when I have to predict/commit to future actions but I’m getting mixed signals about the related manifestation. In the example, Dee was getting a little bit of a positive sign and also signs of resistance. Suppose that in the midst of this, she had been asked to a wedding and people needed to know, “Are you bringing a date or not?” (Or think of some better example of some future romantic action she may have to decide about BEFORE she’s entirely sure where her romantic manifestation is at.) Is it better to make a choice in faith that the universe will give her a partner by then, or to assume that the resistance won’t be all cleared by then? Sometimes we have to make choices about the future now, when we may be having a mixed assortment of signs. Of course, sometimes we can back out or change our minds without much harm to anyone later, but other times, the decision seems more fixed. (e.g. you can’t get the deposit back on the vacation you were hoping for, or the government office won’t let you change your mind about what you filed, etc.) If you’re getting mixed signals and a commitment one way or the other seems required right now, what should you do?
Hi Lisa,
I’m glad you liked the post, and that you thought there was a good balance. 🙂 The balance was very important to me.
Your question is a very good one. The answer, unfortunately, depends on the individual.
In general, I’d say that committing to something when you still have a lot of resistance, will likely only create more resistance. So in the hypothetical you gave, if Dee commits to bringing a date, she might then feel pressured to manifest this quickly, and that deadline of the wedding is going to be looming over her head.
Now, it’s important to note that it is not at all failing your manifestation, or holding it away, if she were to just say, “No, no date this time.” It’s just giving her breathing room to let that manifestation happen.
But it depends on the level of resistance. If you think that the commitment will kick you into gear, and resistance is only moderate, then perhaps it’s a good thing.
Wonderful post!
Is the zero zone that of creation or manifestation or both? I love this zone because my mind does not bombard me with negative stuff and I feel at peace. Ι think that this is the reason that, when I expect something in particular, it does not manifest, but when I do not, it manifests. Not expecting anything frees you up so that things pop up. This is how a lot of things have showed up for me. I know people tell you to chase after things and become a go-getter, which is fine, but when the sign is to stop doing that you need to heed it.
“Note that nothing happening is, in fact, a negative sign”. Yup, this goes back to the expectation thing. You’d expect the guy to contact you but he doesn’t. You can still feel elated that he did, since you know your social life is happening and you are a catch.
I feel we get penalized for resistance because we remain stagnant if we have any.
Hi Kat,
Thanks for your comment. 🙂
To me, creation = manifestation. They are the same thing.
Addressing what you said, though, I think perhaps expectation is not at all the same thing as craving. I’ve manifested many things, where I did expect it to happen. That expectation I see more as a confidence that it will work out, and you have the power to manifest it.
Craving is more that I need this thing to happen. That’s what Dee seemed to fall into once her desired partner started texting her. I know the state well, and it’s hard to get out of it, once you’ve entered that place.
So to me, expectation is a good thing. That’s equivalent to holding a light intention, as I’ve mentioned before.
But simultaneously you have to rest in the zero state, and allow everything to be perfect. It’s really quite a fine balance.
Interestingly, I did just manifest something this week where I outright did not expect it to happen. But I did the steps anyway, just in case the Universe found a way to make it happen, and it came through for me. 🙂 So expectation isn’t always necessary, but can be helpful.
I also would not say we get penalized for having resistance. It’s simply a matter of what we’re able to allow into our reality. We’re the gatekeeper of that reality, and we choose, consciously or unconsciously, what can come through.
Thanks for the thorough explanation of my question. I would like to add that I’ve received HUGE signs in the past. I mean totally irrefutable, no way it’s a coincidence signs! I’ve asked for a specific sign and I’ve gotten it. I don’t even ask for signs and I’ll just get them but yes sometimes my ego gets in the way and doubt will creep in. The last few days I feel I’m totally in a place of least resistance and now there is no doubt. I just know. So thx again- it really helped!
Hi Dee,
I’m so glad to hear that the post helped. 🙂
It sounds like you are doing great!
My advice stands as given in the post. Be open to the Universe surprising you with who, specifically, is your “soulmate”. Sometimes our ego likes to think it knows exactly what is best, but it has no idea. Just keep feeling good about having a great partner, and the Universe will bring you the perfect match.
Hi Brandon! I’ve been trying to manifest $100 million specifically for a year now. I try to let go of all resistance, I trust that the universe will deliver it to me. I think about what it will feel like to have that everyday, a few times a day. Im not sure what I’m doing wrong or why it hasn’t manifested 🙁 please help! This will be huge for me and my family.
Hi @Cassie,
I’m sorry to be blunt, but you’re in way over your head. That’s not how the law of attraction works. You just can’t wish for 100 million dollars and hope that it comes. It is so big that your subconscious mind is just going to give up.
I highly recommend my class, The Art of Reality Creation 2.0. This will answer all your questions about how to manifest big goals.
I’m happy to answer your specific questions though.
Well..I know the universe doesn’t see a difference between $1 and 1 billion dollars…and I certainly know its possible..but I also get what you’re saying. Should I think of a smaller specific amount?
The thing is, you don’t know it’s possible, or it’d be here. The first step is to not delude yourself.
But yes, take your current monthly income, and choose an amount about 20% higher. Set that as a goal. 🙂 That is believable enough, while being challenging.
Wonderful post !!!. Simplest yet best explanation of how manifestation works. Being persistent is the key like you explained in your last post. Just don’t give up. Over the time it gets better and you feel more confident. And I believe after some time it feels normal. I look at it like developing new software. You need to keep removing bugs and keep updating it.
Thank you for another great Post.
So true, Rhea. I love the software analogy since I’m also a programmer. 🙂
It really is all about persistence. Just apply the steps and trust that the Universe will take care of the rest.
I’m so glad you enjoyed my post. 🙂 Thanks as always for your comment.
Hi Brandon, the universe at least delivered this article right when i needed it 🙂 I’ve been having a rough time in my relationship and been working on mending things. Last night I texted him to meet up but never heard from him until late so never met him and meanwhile at the event I was at, a couple of guys showed interest that I was not seeking. My question is still how to remove the resistance, like you mentioned I can do it for a little bit and manifest but I slide back to the hopelessness. It’s physically painful right now 🙁
I’ve been trying for a few weeks now to feel better.
Hi Shell,
The biggest thing you need to do right now is to remove the attachment to this relationship. It’s okay to desire, but attachment will only set up an attachment/aversion polarity that keeps you bound.
The best way to manifest is in a light, detached way. You are already fulfilled within, but simply intend to create something new.
As long as you are attached, it simply won’t work the way you want it to.
You have to get ego out of this. Step back, appreciate what you have in life already, and just lightly intend for the perfect relationship to present itself.
The Universe is so accommodating. But we have to allow it to do its work.
I think this post would be perfect for you.
Thank You!
Hello Brandon. Thanks for this post. You never miss posting enlightening ideas.
What eagers me to know right now if what if a person tries to manifest something related to say, money, and probably she gets resistances along the way whenever she sets an intention. Is her attempt to manifest on money affected by any sort of resistance not really related to her money issues and is pointed somewhat directly, say for another subject like relationship? I am thinking the possibilities hidden upon the fact that there are people who are good in manifesting wealth but fails on relationships.
Hi Dominic,
I think I addressed this topic in a recent support call, maybe call #5.
But, in general, topics are separate from one another. As you said, someone could be great at manifesting money, but terrible with relationships.
There are cases where one bit of resistance can affect another, but this is rare. Usually it is only if this resistance is absorbing your focus more than anything else. Then it’ll start to pull your overall vibration down with it.
But in general there’s no need to fear this.
Thank you Brandon ????
Hi Brandon, the universe at least delivered this article right when i needed it 🙂 I’ve been having a rough time in my relationship and been working on mending things. Last night I texted him to meet up but never heard from him until late so never met him and meanwhile at the event I was at, a couple of guys showed interest that I was not seeking. My question is still how to remove the resistance, like you mentioned I can do it for a little bit and manifest but I slide back to the hopelessness. It’s physically painful right now 🙁
I’ve been trying for a few weeks now to feel better.
Hi Shell,
The biggest thing you need to do right now is to remove the attachment to this relationship. It’s okay to desire, but attachment will only set up an attachment/aversion polarity that keeps you bound.
The best way to manifest is in a light, detached way. You are already fulfilled within, but simply intend to create something new.
As long as you are attached, it simply won’t work the way you want it to.
You have to get ego out of this. Step back, appreciate what you have in life already, and just lightly intend for the perfect relationship to present itself.
The Universe is so accommodating. But we have to allow it to do its work.
I think this post would be perfect for you.
Thank You!
Hello Brandon. Thanks for this post. You never miss posting enlightening ideas.
What eagers me to know right now if what if a person tries to manifest something related to say, money, and probably she gets resistances along the way whenever she sets an intention. Is her attempt to manifest on money affected by any sort of resistance not really related to her money issues and is pointed somewhat directly, say for another subject like relationship? I am thinking the possibilities hidden upon the fact that there are people who are good in manifesting wealth but fails on relationships.
Hi Dominic,
I think I addressed this topic in a recent support call, maybe call #5.
But, in general, topics are separate from one another. As you said, someone could be great at manifesting money, but terrible with relationships.
There are cases where one bit of resistance can affect another, but this is rare. Usually it is only if this resistance is absorbing your focus more than anything else. Then it’ll start to pull your overall vibration down with it.
But in general there’s no need to fear this.
Thank you Brandon ????
thank you for this well written simple and clear post. I just got a very unexpected sign and it felt very positive. I know I’m on my way to manifesting what i want. I wish all of you luck and send my love.
although Brandon, I do have a question. when manifesting a relationship, if I am using the law of attraction to bring my intended partner closer to me, and the same time he is using it to move away from me and forget me, I mean I go zig and he goes zag… what happens in such cases?
thanx!!
thank you for this well written simple and clear post. I just got a very unexpected sign and it felt very positive. I know I’m on my way to manifesting what i want. I wish all of you luck and send my love.
although Brandon, I do have a question. when manifesting a relationship, if I am using the law of attraction to bring my intended partner closer to me, and the same time he is using it to move away from me and forget me, I mean I go zig and he goes zag… what happens in such cases?
thanx!!
I had a sign and I just have to share it. i’m homeless (I’ve been homeless for almost 6 years straight now) and have been staying in a women’s shelter for the past 8 months. I don’t have to tell you all that I’ve been praying to god for a home but not just any home, I’ve been praying for one since I was around 18 years old. one that when i walk through the door, I OWN it IN FULL AND OUTRIGHT from the time I put the key in the lock and turn it to walk over the threshold.
Anyway, this past Friday, one of the staff came over to my assigned bed and woke me up and showed me the master bed list. He said, “Nina, look your bed is empty,” then he started laughing. I was groggy and asked him how that happen but he said he didn’t know and that’s never happened before and I said i know. So, I signed my name on the list then promptly fell back asleep.
Now, I’ve been sleeping in bed since last October and never had this happen before. Once I showed up on the bed list, my name and birth date has ALWAYS SINCE been on the bed list in black-n-white!
The next day as i was sitting at my bedside combing my hair, out of the blue, a voice spoke in my mind . it said, “That was a sign that you’re leaving here soon.” A strong feeling came over me that I’m getting my house soon and i teared up and went to one of the christian ministers here to share it with her and she told me congratulations, God giving me my house soon.
It’s been a LOOOONNNG time coming but I KNOW my home will manifest any day now. I’ve got the sign to show for it. One more thing, I also want to have senior dogs in my home and through my p.o. box, I received two cans of sample dog food out of the blue about three weeks ago. another sign.
I’m on my way. Thank You, Lord.
I had a sign and I just have to share it. i’m homeless (I’ve been homeless for almost 6 years straight now) and have been staying in a women’s shelter for the past 8 months. I don’t have to tell you all that I’ve been praying to god for a home but not just any home, I’ve been praying for one since I was around 18 years old. one that when i walk through the door, I OWN it IN FULL AND OUTRIGHT from the time I put the key in the lock and turn it to walk over the threshold.
Anyway, this past Friday, one of the staff came over to my assigned bed and woke me up and showed me the master bed list. He said, “Nina, look your bed is empty,” then he started laughing. I was groggy and asked him how that happen but he said he didn’t know and that’s never happened before and I said i know. So, I signed my name on the list then promptly fell back asleep.
Now, I’ve been sleeping in bed since last October and never had this happen before. Once I showed up on the bed list, my name and birth date has ALWAYS SINCE been on the bed list in black-n-white!
The next day as i was sitting at my bedside combing my hair, out of the blue, a voice spoke in my mind . it said, “That was a sign that you’re leaving here soon.” A strong feeling came over me that I’m getting my house soon and i teared up and went to one of the christian ministers here to share it with her and she told me congratulations, God giving me my house soon.
It’s been a LOOOONNNG time coming but I KNOW my home will manifest any day now. I’ve got the sign to show for it. One more thing, I also want to have senior dogs in my home and through my p.o. box, I received two cans of sample dog food out of the blue about three weeks ago. another sign.
I’m on my way. Thank You, Lord.